🕊After a LossOne step at a time. We'll keep the list.
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Someone you love died. Let this carry the paperwork.

There is no good time to learn what a funeral home needs, who cancels a Social Security payment, or how many death certificates to order. Answer a few gentle questions and get the ordered list — what's today, what's this week, what can absolutely wait — with the official links. Take it one line at a time.

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Free — take your time

A few gentle questions.

Only what's needed to order the list. Skip anything you don't know yet.

Free. Takes a few seconds.

Why this exists

Grief and paperwork should never have been the same week.

Funeral homes explain their part. Nobody explains the rest. This is the rest, in order, with permission to go slowly.

1-800-772-1213Social Security's survivor line — the funeral home usually reports the death, but survivors must call about benefitsSource: SSA survivors10+certified death certificates is the practical number — banks, insurers, DMV and the county each want originalsSource: CDC vital recordsVAveterans may have burial allowances, plots, and survivor benefits — one call to check costs nothingSource: VA survivor benefits

How it works

The list, held for you.

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Answer gently

A few questions. Skip what you don't know. Nothing is saved.

02

Get the ordered list

Today, this week, this month — and what can truly wait.

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One line at a time

Official links, phone scripts, and the scams to ignore.

Plans

The checklist is free. The complete binder is $9.

The checklist is free because this week is hard enough. The binder adds every script and letter, printable, for the weeks that follow.

The complete binder
$9one family

Every phone script, notification letter, obituary template and tracking sheet, printable, EN+ES.

  • SSA, bank and insurer call scripts
  • Creditor validation letter
  • Obituary template + notification emails
  • Printable tracking binder, EN + ES
Hospices & funeral homes
$49per month

For hospice social workers, chaplains and funeral homes who walk families through this weekly.

  • Unlimited binders for families
  • Your organization's name on the cover
  • Cancel any time

All prices in USD, handled by Stripe. The checklist never goes behind a paywall.